Just that. Can be accidental pregnancy. Can be that your partner wanted to have kids, but it has to be why YOU made the decision.
Just that. Can be accidental pregnancy. Can be that your partner wanted to have kids, but it has to be why YOU made the decision.
I was never really a fan of kids. But as I grew older I found it harder and harder to visualise a family of just my wife and I. At around this time, I noticed myself making faces to babies in strollers and always getting laughs and smiles. Eventually the idea of raising kids became a topic of interest. I also saw a lot of other shitty parents and realised I most likely would be a half-decent parent. Our first child is a crazy curious kid who is super friendly and way more outgoing than my wife and I. Our second, even though he was unplanned is turning out to be quite a cool kid. But we’ll see.
What do you mean you found it harder to visualize a family of just the two of you?