Yesterday, I created my account on Lemmy.ml because I want to become mod on !stardewvalley@lemmy.ml. And I posted this comic on !stardewvalley@lemmy.ml It’s SDV game cutscene where Shane a NPC go watch Sports game with you kiss you accidentily but It was part of that event also player kiss Shane(NPC) back. Here’s video for more context. And someone claimed it have SA(Sexual Assualt) From Hexbear Ofcourse. So, I should delete it. I said it was a part of game cutscene. And If main player doesn’t love the Shane(NPC) then they don’t need to complete this event. And Just as a sarcasm I added Yeah we shoule delete this entire community because this game is Woke like Woke Detector Steam Group said. That user think I am some anti-woke dickhead something like that IDK. And tell me to Kill My Self. What I do now? I wanted on become mod on .ml because community was already well established. I message dessaline but I am sure he will not unbanned me. :(

Did I really did something wrong? I don’t know If I really did something wrong.

Link for that comic if embed doesn’t work.

Comic

  • mathemachristian[he]English
    47·
    4 hours ago

    If you’re gonna post about me at least tag me coward.

    Here’s the thread for context. https://hexbear.net/post/3706906

    And someone claimed it have SA(Sexual Assualt) From Hexbear Ofcourse.

    Here’s my claim boiled down:

    Shane’s reaction betrays he acted without establishing consent, aka committed SA. There is no other reason for him to feel guilty and make excuses other than trying to soften any backlash his action might’ve caused. Even if there was explicit consent along the lines of “hold me tight and kiss me” he is unaware of it and decided to act regardless. Nothing can excuse this. This is textbook SA.

    The framing of the comic makes an act of SA look cute and romantic.

    You have posted a comic romanticizing r*pe.

    When pointed out that this causes harm to real-life people you still tried to defend it and decided to do nothing to mitigate the harm to these people.

    You were unable to say why it was ok to leave a post up despite it being able to cause harm to people with PTSD.

    You kept enganging in disgusting SA apologetics “oh he’s just a depressed alcoholic”, “oh but she wanted it”, “oh but why does she kiss him back”

    I did not ask you to or insinuate that you should kill yourself. Complete lie.

    My bad on not reading the “this game is woke lol” comment as sarcastic.

    • Chozo@fedia.io
      3·
      46 minutes ago

      Weird that you would link to a thread where you tell somebody “I hope you die soon” as if it somehow defends your position. You’re a shitty person; not only are you trivializing actual rape with this smoothbrained take, but you’re being a bully to OP for absolutely no reason. You’re not the good guy here.

      • mathemachristian[he]English
        1·
        40 minutes ago

        nah fuck off, these kinds of posts do trigger SA related trauma and keeping them up after it has been pointed out how they cause harm is risking harm to others because ?? don’t even know why OP was so adamant about defending this tbh

        • Chozo@fedia.io
          3·
          35 minutes ago

          Bruh. You said you wanted to shoot him. Do you know how triggering that is to people who have suffered actual gun violence? Or does triggering PTSD victims only matter when it’s convenient to your own narrative?

          Fuck you, dude. You’re 100% in the wrong here.

    • wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
      101·
      3 hours ago

      I did not ask you to or insinuate that you should kill yourself. Complete lie.

      You stated multiple times that you wanted to shoot him because he used the excuse that “it’s just a game”. That’s a thin distinction at best.

      You also use a separate account for your normal posting than your admin account, which feels needlessly sneaky.

      Look, taking down the post was right call, and removing him from the mod position for arguing about it too. But the rest of this?

      Telling someone that you want to injure them, then going on a multiple paragraph rant that is more about dunking on someone and venting than actually trying to inform isn’t a good look for an admin.

      I can’t read their full responses that you deleted, but what you quoted from them reads like the kind of scared “stop yelling at me I don’t understand what I did wrong please don’t hit me” responses I gave to my mother while she was busy giving me reasons for therapy.

      Normal users can get away with this sort of aggressive behavior because they don’t have a position of power, but you do. You are inherently setting the example of what you want from your users and it’s not a good look from the outside.

      Now let’s see if this criticism gets me banned too… hope not.

      • mathemachristian[he]English
        12·
        2 hours ago

        I’m not an admin of any instance don’t know why you think I am.

        You stated multiple times that you wanted to shoot him because he used the excuse that “it’s just a game”.

        And that was just a comment.

        going on a multiple paragraph rant that is more about dunking on someone and venting than actually trying to inform isn’t a good look for an admin.

        I wasn’t dunking on him but trying to explain my viewpoints to him. I didn’t make fun of him, I wasn’t sarcastic or smug, I stated my opinion. Rather plainly and bluntly but there was no dunking involved.

        I can’t read their full responses that you deleted, but what you quoted from them reads like the kind of scared “stop yelling at me I don’t understand what I did wrong please don’t hit me” responses I gave to my mother while she was busy giving me reasons for therapy.

        The quotes are pretty much entirely what was written. Which was SA apologia. My comments are nothing but trying to explain what was wrong. Also I didn’t delete anything. I’m neither a mod nor an admin. I am just a normal user.