I have some bluetooth earbuds, Jabra Elite 3’s, that I use with my phone most of the time. I also share them as well so sometimes they’re connected to someone else’s phone. I also like to connect them to my macbook. The frustrating thing is though, I’ve succesfully paired them with all of these 3 devices before, but it’s really frustrating to connect them to something other than the last device they connected to.

If they most recently connected to my phone before and I decide to use them with my laptop, I remove them from their case, but they immediately connect to my phone. This is good, because that’s usually what I want them to do, but I hoped I could, from my laptop select them from the list of nearby bluetooth devices and click ‘connect’ and thereby sever that connection between the headphones and my phone, in favour of the new connection between the laptop and the headphones instead. This doesn’t work, the computer just says connecting for a long time, and then stops saying that (but doesn’t say anything about having failed).

Ok, I figured, that sort of makes sense, after all you wouldn’t want people to be able to just break your connection at will if you’re using the headphones (although it would require having previously paired them, but still, devil’s advocate I suppose). So I reasoned, you must have to disconnect them from the phone first, on my headphones that’s achievable by just pressing the button on each bud once. Doing this disconnects them from the phone, but doesn’t them leave them available to other devices for connection, they remain only available to the phone if you press the button again. The only way to finally sever this connection to allow the laptop access is to fully switch off bluetooth on my phone. This pisses me off but it’s not a huge big deal, but the trouble here is, that’s only if they’re connected to my phone. The headphones are shared. I would have thought the ‘ownership’ of the headphones (for lack of a better word) would give precedence to physical access to the headphones. Therefore, if you have the ability to press the disconnect button on the headphones, then you’re most likely the person making the conscious decision to replace one connection with another. I can’t control someone else’s phone, I’m the one with the headphones, but I can’t choose what device they connect to.

Rant aside, this genuinely is a question because it just seems so illogical for it to work this way that I’m betting on there being something I’m missing that would allow common sense to prevail and let me replace one connection with another.