• fibojoly@sh.itjust.works
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      Not so much made as highly dependent on context. Ie, it depends what you’re nodding towards.

      But up and down… yeah, they’ve been pretty universal wherever I’ve been. Kinda cool, really!

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      Yeah, my understanding is that the side depends on context but also eye movement, like with the “check that out” you can move/roll your eyes to the side you’re pointing to to signal that, while the “come over here” is a quick move to the side you’re pointing and moving back to the center

      You can also count mouth movement too but that depends on the person, some faces are rock solid and don’t move unless they talk and some are doing all kinds of facial expressions

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        Up and down is “guy code” but side to side is just universal “look/go over there”

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      Up and down are reversed for black dudes. I hope this can clear up communications between the races.

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    Left and right are not correct. A sideways tilt of the head while maintaining eye contact means “follow me”, a sideways tilt of the head with a glance in that direction means “look over there.”

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    A man’s up nod is for a stranger: “I will not try to kill you if you don’t try to kill me.”

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    Bro you know: nod the head up like “what up bro”

    Bro you don’t know: nod the head down to show respect.

    Supposedly, these types of greetings are ingrained from centuries ago in the sword and shield days, where if you didn’t know someone, you would give a downward head nod to not expose your neck (to get sliced).

    Whereas if you knew the person you were greeting, you could give the upward nod and not worry about exposing your neck.

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    The beard looks fake and it’s weirding me out.

    Also, as an autistic person, you’re missing a gesture. It’s to stop moving and stare in horror like a deer in the headlights, because you’re unsure what’s happening or how to respond.