tweet by Teren Mabry @TerenMabry:
“FYI to all u tweens entering ur sexploration stage: blue balls is just an excuse to guilt u into shenanigans. Say “aw poor baby” n go home”

  • Duckef
    5·
    10 months ago

    Have had “blue balls” before it’s painful but never enough to make it someone else’s problem.

    • GBU_28@lemm.eeEnglish
      1·
      10 months ago

      Yep so bad that your lower back hurts (in addition to crotch and balls) but agree, that’s no one else’s deal.

      I’d only ever joke with her about it if we got interrupted and were both fully interested, and are still fully interested in hooking up, and it’s just about getting these fuckers out of our house

  • MemeCollector@kbin.socialOP
    3·
    10 months ago

    I’ve deleted a bunch more replies because it’s too frustrating to not be able to have the conversation about boundaries and red flags without people first making sure everyone knows blue balls are real (no one said otherwise) and highlight how uncomfortable and painful they can be (again, no one said otherwise) when both are FUCKING IRRELEVANT. It’s just another example of those who have a penis making it all, or at least first and foremost, about them.
    It isn’t about the person with the balls, THAT’S LITERALLY THE POINT.

    • MemeCollector@kbin.socialOP
      10·
      10 months ago

      Nowhere did it say it isn’t real, please keep the focus where it belongs.

      Edit: I’ve deleted that comment because I realised it’s exactly the manipulation the tweet is about and it’s derailing the conversation.

  • Blahaj_Blast@lemmy.blahaj.zone
    2·
    10 months ago

    I mean, yeah it’s a real thing, and it’s really not comfortable, but don’t do what you don’t want to do. If he can’t accept boundaries, that’s a 🚩

    Speaking as someone assigned male at birth.