it’s okay!
I will beat you with a 2x4 if you try taking my baggy clothes from me.
So presenting masculine is not attractive?
I dunno why but I’m somehow bothered by the post on an emotional level. I do not want to accuse anybody, it’s primarily my own issue of course.
The first thing I thought of was transgender men getting told to present feminine. I think nobody should be told how they should dress.
I know it’s a meme and I am taking this a bit too seriously.
Anyways skirts are cool and can be cute and feminine like in the op or cool and masculine like a kilt. It’s a very versatile garment everybody could wear more often.
I had similar feelings about this post. Reminds me of a pansexual family member of mine who claims that everyone is pansexual, really, if they just get over their hang-ups. I’m all for people being who they want to be, and feeling free to express themselves. I dislike the patronizing implication that if I don’t want to wear a crop-top and skirt, it’s because I’m not sufficiently enlightened or liberated.
I don’t think that was at all OP’s intent, to be clear—just thinking out loud as it were. I appreciate your thoughtful response.
I think of this as analogous to the movement to get women to wear pants. It’s not that we wanted them to present as masculine; it’s that we wanted pants to stop being masculine and start being just clothes. Basically all masculine coded attire became androgynous, but almost no feminine code attire did.
It’s not like skirts are inherently feminine either. There are plenty of examples across cultures and time of it being perfectly normal for men to wear them.
calling skirts + crop top attractive is not the same as calling only that attractive. i hope this helps you make peace with this post
Don’t need a skirt for that.
ngl skirts sound pretty comfortable
Ok but I actually want that skirt… where can I find one?
If you’re from the eu, I’d suggest looking on emp
Sadly I’m no longer in the EU… (Thanks Brexit…)
it’s okay to be attractive
If only I could
everyone talking about kilts is in the wrong thread. this is about wearing skirts.
I think kilts can be a good gateway drug towards skirts
can you become addicted to kilts ?
Most definitely. An English legend says that this is why Scottish people talk funny.
Skirts yes, crop tops… Listen I know me and this gut was made for balancing a pint of Häagen-Dazs while on the couch, not crop tops.
There’s a guy at the local punk bar here with a gut and a big ass beard who I’ve seen multiple times in a crop top and daisy dukes.
Guy looks fantastic.
This gut was made for faking touches on the trackpad while I try to write code on the sofa
Disable the trackpad, problem solved.
TrackPoint supremacy.
I love the nub, but this is a Surface on which I installed Linux out of a combination of spite and a desire to actually get some work done.
I also solved the issue by shedding those extra 20 pounds I had somehow managed to pack on
A male friend of mine is on the bigger side and he looks absolutely fabulous in crop tops
skirts are some of the most efficient and comfortable clothes and it’s honestly bullshit i can’t wear them without being called slurs
The Scots have known this for centuries 🏴
Not for me unfortunately. The inner parts of my thighs get very sore when I wear my kilt :(
Aren’t skirts and dresses supposed to give proper ventilation for your dick?
Well, that and hide more knives on your body.
I like how they also outlined the brain
You mean the spider?
Is that what that is? Huh… Guess I should have zoomed in more
An important feature that shouldn’t be overlooked.
I think the Scottish figured that one out
Eveyone should be cute and pretty :3
I’m trying, okay?🥲
Wrong, you arent just trying. You are cute and pretty :3
Let’s get some shit out of the way here.
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your chub looks great in a crop top, I swear. Start believing it, others do.
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your chest/belly hair looks great too
Alright, with that business out of the way, proceed.
Hashtag free the dad bod
ok but what about I don’t have the same build as the person in the cartoon
Something that helped me to feel more comfortable wearing crop tops was when a friend was complaining about her mum being iffy about my friend wearing crop tops; “Yeah, I get it, I’m chubby! <Grabs her stomach rolls> People can see that regardless of if I wear a crop top. Anyone who would think I look gross in a crop top already think that of me no matter what I wear, so I don’t care about dressing up for them”.
This helped me to realise that because of my misgivings about my body, I tended to swamp myself in clothes that I hated, making myself look and feel worse. People being assholes can make it scarier to dress in ways that make us happy, but I can guarantee you that there are people who would find your body in a crop top to be distractingly hot/pretty.
I sure don’t and it doesn’t stop me. And I’m irresistible.
It’s all in the way you carry yourself.
what about leg and arm hair? do they look good too?
Yes oh yes they do.
Yaaass free hairy bellies :3
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I’m about to start wearing my kilt in the rural south. It’ll be interesting to see how it goes.
Wore mine down in Texas a few months ago, albeit it was to the rennaissance festival. Got some weird stares at the stops on the way though haha
I took a DNA test and found out I’m mostly Scottish (family always said English and Polish) so maybe I will too.
I don’t think anyone wants to be looking at my gut
there are folks who would sexually objectify your gut, don’t even play with me dog
:3
