I FUCKING HATE BEING TRANS

IM TALKING TO THIS ABSOLUTE BADDIE AND ITS LIKE OMG SHES CALLING ME BEAUTIFUL AND STUFF and then it happens Gender comes up “Oh yeah X happened because im trans” “Oh wait you’re trans?” “Uh yeah, sorry if thats a problem, i understand” “Have u had your surgery tho” “Uhhhh no. Again, if thats a problem its fine, i understand” “No its fine!”

What the fuck now im insanely anxious about this shit because now i dont want to “trick” someone

I DONT EVEN FUCKING PASS >:((((

  • TrousersMcPants@lemmy.blahaj.zone
    19·
    2 years ago

    If they take it as “tricking” them, from what you said it sounds like that’s their* problem. If you were open about it as soon as it was relevant then you did fine, as far as I’m concerned.

    Edit: Ye gads a typo

  • argv_minus_one@beehaw.org
    16·
    2 years ago

    At first I thought you said “I fucking hate being trains” and I was like, “I like trains,” and then I was hit by a train out of nowhere.

  • snctfd
    1·
    2 years ago

    Not to be like that but if she didn’t know, clearly you do pass, and also unless you’re gonna have sex with someone you have no obligation to explain what’s in your pants. Of course, since you were flirting it was probably pertinent here, but in general you don’t have to tell everyone.