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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • So it seems like you don’t like games that involve other people but are then surprised when people meet others by playing games that involve other people. Making friends requires two things:

    1. Talking to other people
    2. Sharing a connection

    You seemingly don’t want to do the first, and for the second you complain that the app is terrible and the people are weird/cringe and that the game is secondary to them.

    Just to let you know, number two in my list is about a connection. Connections are not something you talk about 100% of the time, that makes it an obsession. Obsessions are fine to have but don’t expect to make long term friends that way. Connections are what bring us together and then commonalities allow us to stay friends. The reason people are talking about things other than whatever game you’re playing is because that’s what friends do. The game is the initial connection and then talking about that and getting off topic onto other subjects forges the friendships.