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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • I had just started dating a single mom and we saw it in the theater as she was a Jennifer Lawrence fan and I think we were probably expecting something a bit more mainstream. As the movie ended, she was in tears. “Yes…they really captured what it feels like to be a mom. It’s like they read my soul”.

    I quickly learned she had…issues. But stayed in that relationship far longer than I should have because the sex was incredible. Yes, I was an idiot.












  • Don’t really know what the “best” experience was. I can’t say there was anything life changing for me. It was nice to have access to so much stuff in a very well designed app (Apollo) that let me share that content super easily with friends and family via Whatsapp or Telegram.

    Worst interactions? There were many…the groupthink can be real bad. There are a lot of people who take karma very seriously. There was one sub, dedicated to a podcast, and it was clear there was a person that had six or seven alts because of the language they used and the debate style, and they would get so upset and downvote any disagreeing comment. Other subs had plenty of trolling, transphobia, shitty moderators, etc. Other subs became basically unusable because of how large they got and how many people posted “hey, look at me!” low effort content. You know, “art I did of X character” with 2,600 upvotes for what was a 10th grader type drawing done on a notebook. That kind of kills the visibility of posts with the potential for deeper or more meaningful conversation that don’t get as many upvotes.

    In the end I think the main issue with Reddit is that it got too big. It attracted too many people on a superficial level, too many trolls, and most subs worth visiting at this point are dedicated to niche subjects and have smallish communities.







  • Saitama@lemmy.fmhy.mltoAsklemmynull
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    1 year ago

    Good question and I think it should depend on the community. Off the top of my head, I can think of a small sub that had a very active group of “For” people and a smaller number of “Against” people. So the larger group downvoted everything that the other group posted, and upvoted themselves, eventually turning it into an echo chamber.

    Of course that’s also a result of poor modding. The mods were part of the “For” group.


  • I’ve been fairly active both on Squabbles and here. I think Squabbles looks pretty nice and it’s easy to use. I can see myself using it at work to keep up with news, light banter, etc. precisely because of the lack of NSFW, or sharing content from there with my parents or teenage kids without worrying that they may land somewhere that’s going to make them think I’m a degenerate.