Just because I think someone is wrong doesn’t mean I need to be abrasive about it. It really doesn’t do any good for anyone to be so.
Quite a program! Like you say being abrasive can actually harm the situation, where a mistake could provide avenues for learning. It takes a lot of mental energy to stay on the positive/encouraging side and i’m not always capable of it, but when i’m down i take some time to reflect on all i know, and the mental energy other people spent on teaching me things for me to become a better person.
Take care, of yourself and others <3