Hello dear soul reading this text,
I am the guy who created this community on Lemmy, because I felt that a growing amount of people are alone with their lives. Ignorance and fear fills the relationships, both family and friendship kinds and people do not have possibilities to express their experiences and ask for help. Nobody to be happy for you, just because you yourself are happy and nobody willing to understand the position you are in. I humbly believe I know the reason behind this, though I am not here to talk about that. Thanks to this platform, I was able to create a space where you can ask for such help, ask for a friend. I myself am here to do so. :)
My name is Nappé, and I am a 22 year old who is looking to influence the change of the world. I am from Hungary and I live with @firstname.lastname@example.org and you may already know from her post, 2 packages of love. People say that I am radical in my thinking and that I am stubborn, but believe it or not, I am proud of that, because it feels me. I believe in something that as far as I know, does not have a name, but I have seen that some people refer to it as new-spirituality. My beliefs could be described with love and if love is radicalism then I am proud of that. As I said in the title, I feel isolated and I would love to have company in my days. People I could show unconditional love to, therefore help them if they want. I would love to listen to people and observe their life, possibly helping them with a different perspective. I would love to create with people, I would like to tell people my ideas and also to share what is going on in my life. I feel I have love in me to give away, I feel I have many interesting things about me to share, I feel I have ideas and thoughts and objective and factual understanding of the world and there is just no interest in it. (I do not count @email@example.com, because she is somebody who thinks and feels similarly to me and also we know each other for a while, therefore she is up-to date with me.) It could seem selfish, I do not mean it that way, but I could appreciate genuine interest in me and possibly someone who would want try to influence the change of the world with me.
I have a mastodon and pixelfed account if you would like to see the few posts I posted since I am living FOSS, and I am also on matrix if you would be considering to write something to me. In these you may see that I love the game of football and basketball, I love adventuring, I love technology. I love music of many kinds, I love everyone and everything. I love my beliefs, I love love. I love you, God (which is the same thing) and finally I would love to say a thank you to you that you read this thing.
I live life with no expectations, so feel free to do whatever you wish. My wish for you is your wish for yourself. No matter we will have a relationship or not, I send you a big hug and a note to keep doing you, because that is what you are here for on this planet.
Welcome on board!
This is a place where you can build a kind of ship together. Friendships take time to make, so it is only natural to be patient with your fellow sailor, if you want the ship to work. Love and passion are your raw materials and you are the builder. Make the ship look and feel the way you prefer, you are totally free. Also, since you are the builder, you two are the only ones to tell, what a ship is. If you want it to slide in the snow instead of sailing on water, make it like that. You may want to try out having no expectations, maybe during the building process it will help you experience things, you had no idea you will.
Post what kind of ship you are planning to build and wait until somebody is willing to make it with you. If you know anyone around you, who might be interested in making a friendship, offer them builders or simply this site in general. Once you are done, you can choose to be friends on a friendship, or try to build another one with someone else. In any case, in my observation, it helps if you let each other know what you are looking for, so both of you will know what exactly you are creating.
Step lively now!
This is a community in which you can let others know, that you are looking for friends or in which you can message a potential friend based on what they said about themselves. You can use the Lemmy DM’s or provide additional information about where people could message you. Tip: Matrix username can be set in profile settings.
A sister Matrix group has been created for people looking for an approach that is different to establishing friendships. Those looking for a group/chat experience may prefer to find friends using that method. It was created by @firstname.lastname@example.org, therefore maintained separately. Reach the mentioned group here: #friendship:matrix.org