• spooky2092@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      We still have no word for the, uhm, “soft” gender to differentiate it from the biological gender?

      Sex. The term for biological gender is ‘sex’. You can be male sexed (ie assigned male at birth [AMAB]), but that doesn’t make your gender male necessarily. We have plenty of words for ones gender that aren’t male or female, it just scares and confuses people who don’t want to think about other genders than male/female.

      Because, since gender has two parts, he’s right and wrong.

      He’s not wrong, you just seem to lack proper knowledge of the topic.

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        Both parts are made up. We originally used sex and gender synonymously, but in the 70s as it was becoming clear to biologists that human biology did not fit cleanly into two distinct sexes, John Money and Robert Stroller both contributed in seperating sex and gender from one another as two distinct concepts.

        This was more to salvage the concept of sex, and in Stoller’s case, it was additionally to endorse the idea that you could change someone’s gender identity with conversion therapy.

        It reality, biology does not fit neatly into sexes, psychology does not fit neatly into genders, and this terminology is explicitly used to try and constrain how the conversation of self-expression occurs.

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      Gender is a social construct and ‘biological gender’ doesn’t exist in the way that the phrase is frequently used.

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      If you mean sex and gender, gender was used only used for classifying nouns up until around 50 years ago. At that point is when it was used by feminists to create a distinction between sex and gender (and as a means of identifying gendered social constructs), using it as a synonym for sex is more recent.

      Sex and gender are still entirely distinct when it comes to medical science, psychology, neuroscience, etc.

      (I may be missing another historical usage here, but it would be a modern use of ‘gender’ definitely. I think the timeline is about right though.)

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        Sex and gender are still entirely distinct when it comes to medical science, psychology, neuroscience, etc.

        Not really. Binary trans people’s brains have been shown to more closely mirror the brains of people who were assigned their gender at birth, rather than the gender the trans person was assigned at birth. So trans women’s brains mirror those of cis women more closely than cis men, and vice versa for trans men.

        Also, treating sex as the only one that is relevant in medicine is reductive and inaccurate. I appreciate that this might not be what you were trying to say (edit: it most certainly was not), but at the same time I am not sure what else you mean by “sex and gender are distinct in medical science”. Transition alters the body significantly and is medically relevant. As a trans guy, my voice, metabolism, hirsutism, and build/muscularity align with cis men much more closely than cis women for example.

        I am not sure what you mean with psychology – why do you think sex and gender are distinct in psychology?

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          We’re going well past “these two words mean the same thing!” that I was replying to, probably because they deleted their comment. So there is missing context.

          So trans women’s brains mirror those of cis women more closely than cis men, and vice versa for trans men.

          Because sex is not a binary either. I’m not a geneticist, doctor, etc, but this is fairly well established AFAIK, showing that ‘male’ and ‘female’ are more akin to general groupings, with a degree of overlap, than any actual dichotomy.

          As a sample reference:

          https://cen.acs.org/biological-chemistry/genomics/Scientists-reject-binary-view-human/102/i33

          To quote that example:

          Gender and sex are closely related yet distinct concepts—sex is considered a collection of biological characteristics, and gender is considered a collection of socially constructed roles, behaviors, expressions, and identities.

          Regarding the next bit from you:

          Also, treating sex as the only one that is relevant in medicine is reductive and inaccurate.

          It would be, but that isnt what I said, right from the quote you have of me:

          Sex and gender are still entirely distinct

          I never, at any point, said that only sex mattered in medicine. I said they were distinct.

          I doubt it was your intention to do so, but youre putting words in my mouth. Please don’t misrepresent me.

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            Gotcha. Yes, I didn’t get to see the original comment.

            I never, at any point, said that only sex mattered in medicine. I said they were distinct. I doubt it was your intention to do so, but you’re putting words in my mouth. Please don’t represent me.

            TBF I did state quite explicitly that that was my own interpretation of your statement, not what you had literally said, because I couldn’t think what else you meant by that expression (possibly because of the missing context.)

            I apologise for any hurt I have caused and will edit my previous comment, so as not to misconstrue yours.

            showing that ‘male’ and ‘female’ are more akin to general groupings, with a degree of overlap, than any actual dichotomy

            I totally agree.

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              No worries! Like I said, missing context from the deletion. For the record, they were conflating sex and gender and thinking they were the same thing.

              Which, obviously - no, definitely not the same thing, and both are important.

              Edited to add: and I completely understand how the lost context can make things more confusing, so seriously, no worries. I just wanted to be clear that was not what I was saying at all.

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        Ok, i forgot about the sex. But here again, it means the act, the preferences for the act and the biological gender.

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      Gender is soft gender, it doesn’t have anything to do with biology. One’s sex is biological.

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      In German we don’t - it’s social and biological gender here. English has two words, although they meant the same up until around a century ago, I believe.